hang in there, 24K
Hang in there for your wife and especially your kids.
I know haow you feel. I gave up long ago making excuses for my religious beliefs long ago. We DO LIVE IN A FREE COUNTRY. I attend a Catholic service with my wife and family; not so much because I believe it but for family unity. The influence on my children is very minimal compared to any JW influence they might have had. If you are searching for a faith, good luck to you.
IF it is a hot topic for your wife; wait a while to discuss it. Forget your inlaws; you do not owe them ANY explanations. If they push the subject; simply tell them ; politely and diplomatically for your kids sake ( this is their grandparents, and despite how you may feel, I am sure the kids are crazy about them) that you will not have this discussion with them. END OF CONVERSATION.
Your wife will come around; she has to .
hang in there, Frank
goo